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Enjoyable First Date Ideas by Lisa

Over the⁢ years, our⁤ quest ⁢for ​convenience has‍ significantly impacted the dating ⁢scene.⁤ The rise of dating apps​ has certainly eased ‌our anxieties, but it has also increased the pressure for the first date to be flawless – unless, of course, you’re ⁤a ‍character in a Hollywood movie ⁣with⁣ only 15 minutes ⁢left to wrap up the story.

So, what’s the ideal‌ setting for a first date, and what activities should you plan?

Top Five First Date Ideas

1) ⁤Coffee Date

If you’re uncertain about your date or vice versa, a casual coffee‍ date could be the perfect solution. ⁢It’s like a trial run ‍for ⁣a date. Coffee shops, known for their tranquillity, offer minimal ⁣distractions, allowing you to focus on your date and gauge⁤ if you’d like to spend ⁢more time with them. However,⁢ it’s best to avoid overly trendy ⁤coffee shops with constant background ⁤noise and overly enthusiastic ⁣baristas. If the date goes well and you’re ready for more than just a cup of coffee, you can⁣ always head to a…

2) Pub

A pub is a classic choice for​ a ⁣date.​ However, ‍the success of this choice depends on the quality‌ of the⁣ pub you choose. Pubs are popular because‌ they‌ serve‍ alcohol, which can help ease nerves or fill ⁤awkward silences. Even if you end up in a less-than-ideal pub, you can ⁢bond over critiquing it ​– a shared dislike can be a great ice breaker. Be ⁢aware, though, ⁤that your⁢ date may judge you based on your ‌pub choice. If they don’t seem to be enjoying it, you can always say⁢ a friend recommended it or you found it online. ​If they⁤ love it, claim it as ​one of ⁤your⁢ favourites – even ⁣if it’s⁢ your first visit. If you’re a regular, be ⁣careful not to ⁢appear too familiar with the staff, as your date may think‌ you have a drinking⁤ problem.

3) Bowling

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Tips for Prolonging Intimacy and Reducing Sexual Anxiety by Lisa

Great sex can be compared to a thrilling day at ⁤an amusement park – when you’re having that much ‍fun, you ⁤certainly don’t want it to end prematurely. While there’s something to be said⁢ for a passionate, quick⁢ encounter that barely gives you time​ to undress, many find true gratification in​ ensuring they can sustain⁣ the pleasure. Our sexual performance is often tied to a myriad ‍of ⁣emotions.‍ It’s about pride, demonstrating our endurance, stamina, and prowess. We want to feel accomplished, ensuring that no one is left ⁢unsatisfied. Being a‌ patient lover, maximizing ‍not only your own pleasure but also your partner’s, portrays you as a thoughtful, skilled individual who ‌knows ‌what they’re doing.

However, sometimes, despite our best efforts,⁤ our bodies may not cooperate. When physical ‌satisfaction ends before emotional readiness, it can severely impact our self-esteem. The⁣ existing stigma around⁢ premature ejaculation and erectile ⁢dysfunction ‍often ⁣hinders us from seeking help. Many⁣ of us aren’t even sure about the ⁤ideal duration of ⁤sex, or if we’re meeting expectations – after ⁣all, everyone is different,‌ and ⁢there’s‍ no universal stopwatch ‌for sexual encounters. But rest assured, ‍there’s ample assistance available ​to help​ you regain‌ control and finish at your own pace.

What is the average ⁢duration of sex?

When it⁢ comes to penetration, the duration can vary⁣ greatly, and even scientific studies offer differing opinions. A 2005‍ survey of​ sex therapists suggested that the ⁢actual duration for ⁢vaginal sex ranged between three and​ seven minutes, with the ideal being between ‍7 and 13 ‍minutes. Anything beyond these limits ‌is considered too‍ short or too long. ‌ A ⁢2020 study supported this to some extent, stating that women in stable, monogamous, heterosexual relationships⁢ took 13.41 ‍minutes to⁢ reach orgasm, but it required more than just penetration – highlighting‌ the importance of ​multitasking. Essentially,​ another 2005 study monitoring 500 couples found⁣ that men, on average,⁢ reached climax in⁣ 5.4 minutes.

What⁤ leads ⁤to premature⁢ ejaculation?

The causes of premature ejaculation can be multifaceted. Emotional ⁣factors can​ include ‌stress, body image ‍issues, depression, unsatisfactory early sexual experiences, or performance anxiety. Even ​if you’re mentally‍ prepared, biological issues such as abnormal ⁤hormone or neurotransmitter levels, prostate infections, ​or genetic predisposition can ⁢interfere. Premature ejaculation is also ‍common in men who struggle with achieving or maintaining‌ an erection.

How‌ do delay sprays and creams function?

These ingenious products typically ⁢work by slightly desensitizing ⁣the penis, often using a mild numbing agent like lidocaine or benzocaine. You⁢ simply spray or apply it to your ‍penis before sex – the required application time varies between products. Don’t worry, you’ll still⁣ be able to ⁢achieve an erection and it won’t diminish ‍the intensity of your orgasm. It’s advisable to use it ⁢sparingly initially, to gauge how ⁢much it ‍reduces the sensation – you still⁤ want to feel‍ pleasure. Delay sprays‌ and creams can help you train yourself to last‍ longer, and you ‍may eventually find you don’t need them at all.

Can thicker condoms⁢ help prevent premature⁤ ejaculation?

A thicker condom can reduce penile‌ sensitivity, thereby enhancing your⁢ endurance during‌ sex. Plus,​ they offer⁤ protection against STIs and unwanted pregnancies, making them‍ a triple‍ win. ‌You can also opt for‌ condoms with a numbing lubricant, available in regular or ⁣ribbed varieties to help your partner reach orgasm quicker. It’s⁣ always good‍ to meet halfway.

Does masturbation before sex help prolong performance?

While some men vouch for this‌ method, it doesn’t⁢ work for everyone ⁢and lacks scientific backing.⁣ In ⁤fact, ⁤you might ​risk ​being⁣ unable to perform when it matters most: we ‌all have ​a ⁢refractory ⁤period, the recovery time‌ after orgasm before ⁤we can be sexually stimulated again. While​ some men may only‌ need a few minutes to recharge, older ⁣men might require up to 12 hours to be ready for another round. That’s why we’ve curated a selection of products ‍that can lend a helping hand…

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Stop the Endless Hunt for True Love Now by Lisa

Norman Mailer was a man who yearned for romance. He was captivated by the intoxicating blend of anticipation ⁣and passion, the exhilarating discovery of a new love interest, and the tantalising prospect of meeting his soulmate.‍ This longing for romance was somewhat inconvenient, considering he was about to walk down the aisle for ‍the sixth time.

The year was 1980, and a chilly November morning‍ was breaking over Brooklyn Heights. Mailer, a formidable figure ​in⁤ American literature, was 57 years old, carrying​ extra weight, and had a complicated ‍personal life with five former wives, seven children, and financial difficulties. He was about to marry ⁤Norris Church, a 31-year-old woman and the mother of his youngest child.

As the wedding day dawned, Mailer found himself questioning his decision.‍ Why should he ⁤commit to marriage once more, knowing the familiar⁤ path it would lead him down – broken promises,‍ domestic monotony, and the potential for infidelity? His‌ mind⁢ wandered to the road ⁣less travelled, where romance awaited him.

Mailer confessed to his bride-to-be, “All my life,⁤ all I ⁢ever wanted was to be free and alone in Paris.”

Church, who remained devoted to ‍Mailer from their first meeting until his death 27 ⁤years later, responded⁣ with understanding. She wrote in ‌her memoir, A Ticket To⁢ The Circus, that she didn’t want to marry him if he had any doubts about⁢ their union.

She reasoned with him, painting a picture of his life in Paris. He would be sitting at a café, flashing a charming smile at ⁣a passing woman. This would lead to conversations, dates, and eventually cohabitation and perhaps⁣ even a child. ‌But then, she pointed out, he wouldn’t be ⁢free and alone in Paris anymore. Later that day, they got married.

Their marriage lasted until Mailer’s death in 2007, weathering his numerous affairs and various ups⁤ and downs. Norris Church was the ⁤love of Norman Mailer’s life. However, any man can relate to the sense of loss he ⁣felt on his wedding day.⁣ It wasn’t about losing the chance⁣ for casual flings or sexual encounters with strangers.⁣ Mailer ⁤was mourning the loss of potential romance, the kind that ⁤can make ⁤a man abandon ⁢his family and start anew.

As boys⁤ mature into men, the desire for physical intimacy is often replaced by a longing for deep, ⁢meaningful love. ⁤Men ⁣are more susceptible to this craving for an ‍unknown lover than women. A survey by The App​ Developers, a firm based in Bedford, revealed that men are five times‌ more likely to download⁢ a dating app than women.

The pursuit of romance can lead to dissatisfaction with what one‌ already has. It can‌ be destructive, immature, and even pathetic. It can justify breaking promises ⁣and violating vows. ⁢It can lead to the destruction of not ​just one’s own⁤ home, but ⁣also that of others. It can prevent a man from fully committing to anyone, serving as an excuse to avoid domestic monotony. It can even lead a man to run off​ with a woman young enough to be his children’s nanny – often, she is the children’s nanny.

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Why Getting Friend-Zoned Doesn’t Mean It’s All Over by Lisa

Experiencing the dreaded “It’s not you, it’s me” conversation⁤ in a relationship can be a tough pill to swallow, especially when it’s unexpected or we choose to ignore the signs. Sometimes, the conversation doesn’t even get that far, and we find ourselves veering off course with the infamous “I think I see us more as friends” line.

This form of rejection, albeit a gentle one, can still sting. Despite the person expressing their desire to keep us in their lives, we‌ often focus on the opportunities we’re missing ‍out on – love, romance, intimacy. They’re offering us a lifetime of friendship, but all we can see is what they’re not offering.

This swift categorisation out of the romantic realm is commonly referred to ‍as friend-zoning. This term, often used in heterosexual relationships, implies that friendship is a downgrade and‍ an obstacle to your romantic desires. It usually occurs when a woman decides the best way to quash any romantic feelings is‌ to maintain a‌ platonic relationship with a man. Sometimes, ‍the person doing the friend-zoning genuinely means it, but other times it’s a tactic used to let the other person down gently. Unfortunately, women are ‌often taught to prioritise the man’s feelings when rejecting them, likely because ⁢men are​ conditioned to take rejection personally and as an affront to their masculinity. This shouldn’t be the ​case. So, here’s everything you need ‍to know about the friend zone…

Identifying Friend-Zoning

How ​can you tell if you’re being friend-zoned? The truth is, ⁢you probably already have an inkling. Signs of disinterest often show up long before “the talk”. They might suggest a group hangout instead of a date, seem distracted or edgy when you meet, or send non-committal and vague texts. They might mention their single friends that “you’d be perfect ‍for”, steer clear of romantic or sexual conversations, or frequently talk about their exes. If any of these signs sound familiar, you’re likely in the friend zone.

Escaping the Friend Zone

The most straightforward solution might also be the most difficult to‌ accept: let‍ it happen. Resisting, denying, getting angry, or lashing out will ​only accelerate ​the process and potentially land you in a worse situation: the no-go zone. Complaining to someone who sees you as a friend will only lead to humiliation ‍and push you further away from your desired outcome.‌ When‌ someone says they want to be friends, you have two options: accept it and be friends, or refuse and exit their life. There’s no middle ground. You can’t convince someone you’re a worthy romantic interest through persistence or denial; you do⁤ it by being a decent person and respecting their ⁣wishes. If they ‍change their mind, it should be their decision, not‍ a result of your relentless pursuit. If you manage ⁤to secure a date through ‌nagging, it’s a hollow ⁤victory.

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Why the Mile High Club is the Most Overrated Fantasy by Lisa

Engaging in​ intimate activities is one of the most exhilarating experiences we​ can enjoy at no cost. However, as humans, we are‍ always seeking ways to enhance this thrill. One⁣ such method is ⁣to engage in these activities in ⁤unconventional locations. What you consider unconventional may vary, but it’s generally agreed that the⁢ bedroom, living room, or even a quick encounter on the kitchen countertop ‍are not considered ⁤adventurous.

The allure of air travel⁤ has significantly​ diminished over the years. The prestige⁢ associated with ‍boarding a plane has been replaced with unallocated seating and overpriced,‍ mediocre inflight meals. However, ‍one aspect of air ‌travel still holds a certain charm: the Mile High Club.

What is it about intimacy on a⁢ plane that intrigues us?⁢ Is it the ​influence of ​popular culture from the 2000s? Regardless of⁢ what the renowned author Jackie Collins may have⁢ suggested ⁢in her risqué ⁣novels, for most of us, the ⁢Mile ‍High Club,‍ despite its glamorous name, is simply… an encounter in an airplane bathroom.

Perhaps you have nostalgic memories ​of a‍ clumsy​ encounter in a festival porta-potty, or a bizarre experience in ⁤a shopping ⁢centre restroom involving a cucumber. If so, the idea of a ⁢tryst in ‌an airplane bathroom, high above the ground, ‌might seem‍ appealing. ⁣However, for those who feel they’re missing out, here’s some⁢ good news: it’s not as glamorous as it‍ sounds.

Let’s consider your options, ​all of which are less ⁤than ideal…

1) The Airplane Bathroom

Airplane bathrooms are notoriously small. There’s barely⁤ enough room⁣ for one person to comfortably move,​ let alone two adults attempting to engage in intimate activities. ​The ⁤heat inside these bathrooms can be unbearable, and there’s ‍always the risk of accidentally⁣ hitting the “flush” button mid-act, causing⁤ a ​moment​ of panic. On ⁣long flights, ‍passengers often use the bathroom as a way⁢ to pass​ the time, so ⁤you may find⁤ yourself interrupted ‍by ⁤impatient knocks on the door.

2) Under a Pile of Coats

You‍ might think that if ⁢you’re⁣ alone in a row, you could discreetly arrange your belongings around you and no one would notice. However, is this really how‌ you envisioned the Mile ⁢High Club? Instead ‍of‌ a glamorous encounter involving champagne on a private jet, you’re‍ quietly engaging in activities under a pile of coats, hoping not to‌ draw the attention⁤ of the flight attendant. Once the act is ‍over,⁤ you’re left with the question of how to clean ‍up and ‌where to ‌dispose ⁢of any used items.

3) The Galley

If you’re attractive, wealthy, or somewhat ‍famous, you⁣ might be able to ​charm ⁣a member of‌ the cabin crew. However,‍ don’t expect to be led to ⁢a comfortable bed⁤ in the​ crew quarters. More ​likely, it ​will be a quick encounter in the galley, ⁣timed to coincide with the⁣ announcement that the inflight meal is​ ready to be served.

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Tips for Presenting Your Best Self on Bumble by Lisa

Bumble, ​the⁢ app that empowers women to make ‌the first move, requires a unique ​approach if you’re⁢ aiming for a response. Forget about‌ the​ mindless ⁤swiping, dull one-liners, or​ unsolicited risqué photos. To stand out⁤ on Bumble, you need ‍to shift your mindset.

Authenticity ⁣is Key

Your profile ⁢should be both aspirational and ​realistic. Posing with luxury cars⁤ or exotic ‌vacations might seem ⁢impressive, but‌ they don’t reveal ⁢anything about⁣ your personality.‍ The places you visit ⁣and the reasons ‍behind your travels are far⁢ more intriguing.‌ While it’s⁤ true that women value security⁣ and confidence, ⁤coming off as arrogant can be a turn-off. Avoid making exaggerated claims about your lifestyle, such as enjoying “the ‍finer things in life” ‍if you’re not genuinely affluent. Bragging is⁤ off-putting, and dishonesty is unacceptable.

Listing your⁢ favourite music ⁢genre in⁢ your profile‌ can come ⁤off ⁢as pretentious. At the age of 30, your music taste is your personal preference, and​ it’s not something that needs to be shared​ on a dating profile. It’s better to ‍focus on aspects that‌ genuinely reflect⁣ your personality.

Also, steer⁣ clear⁢ of negativity. A long list of⁢ things you dislike can make you ‌seem unappealing. ⁢Remember, the ⁤goal is to attract, not repel potential matches.

Choosing ‌the Right Photos

Having a variety ⁢of photos is ⁢essential. Include a full-body picture, but⁣ keep it‍ decent. A series of selfies can raise eyebrows – ⁣it’s better⁢ to have photos taken​ by others. Include a photo with ⁢your friends to give a glimpse of your social circle, but ensure ​you’re sober⁣ and presentable ⁣in it. Candid shots that capture ‌great moments are also a good idea. Photos with ⁤pets⁢ or engaging in⁤ interesting activities can be quite appealing. However,⁢ avoid irrelevant landscape⁢ photos unless you’re in them. Overly staged photos can also be a turn-off.

Spark Curiosity

Including a question in your profile can be a great conversation starter. It can be humorous, ​silly, or serious, as long‌ as it encourages a response. You can either provide an answer in your profile or playfully suggest that they’ll have to get in touch to⁢ find ⁤out. The goal is to⁣ pique⁣ their interest, not scare ⁣them away. So, avoid ‌asking inappropriate questions⁣ that⁤ might make them uncomfortable.

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The Guidelines for Inviting Your Partner Over for Christmas by Lisa

Christmas is traditionally‍ a time ‍when ⁣individuals who are still in​ touch with their families return home to relive their‍ teenage years, indulge in chocolates, and make fun of their parents‘ cooking habits. This‍ is‍ particularly true for those who are single. However, ‍if you’re in a relationship, you⁢ might find yourself celebrating Christmas with your in-laws every​ other ⁣year, ⁢or even introducing your partner to the intricate dynamics of your family.⁣ Moreover, if you’ve moved away from your hometown, you may have to​ deal with old friends who know all your secrets, run-ins with past flames, and your partner’s struggle to understand ‍your parents’ peculiar habits and their surprise at the place you grew up in.

If you’re hosting‍ Christmas this year, here are some tips to ensure you survive the festive season and still‍ have someone⁣ to share a New Year’s Eve kiss with.

Arrange a Pre-Christmas Meeting

Christmas should not be the first time your partner meets your parents. The holiday season is already stressful and busy enough without adding the pressure of first introductions. If ⁢a pre-Christmas meeting is not possible, consider arranging a‍ video call ⁣so that your parents and partner can at least familiarize themselves with each other. Just make sure your parents remember your partner’s name and don’t accidentally call them by your ex’s name.

Prepare Your Partner

Without causing unnecessary panic, inform⁤ your partner about who will ⁤be present at the gathering, their personalities, and⁢ how it might impact‌ their experience. ​Avoid negative descriptions – instead of calling ‌your brother lazy, say he’s “quite relaxed”. Allow your partner to form their own‌ opinions. ⁣If your family has unique traditions or quirks, ⁢let your partner know in ⁣advance⁣ and gauge their interest in participating. Be⁤ as truthful as possible ​without making your family sound bizarre. After all, there must be something enjoyable about them if you’re willing to spend Christmas with them, ​right?

Inform Your ​Family

Ensure your family is aware of any⁢ important⁤ details such as dietary preferences or dislikes well⁤ in advance, without making your partner seem like a demanding individual who will ruin​ Christmas. Encourage your family to be themselves during the ⁤festive season, but also let them know if certain topics ⁣should‌ be avoided. It’s more uncomfortable for⁤ your partner to‌ witness your parents acting unnaturally than to hear them burp at the dinner table. Also, sort out sleeping arrangements early on to ‍avoid ending up on a makeshift bed in the garage. If you’ll‍ be staying in your childhood ⁤room and it hasn’t been changed,‍ ask your⁤ parents to remove any old posters or items that might⁣ be hiding under the bed.

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Unveiling the Truth About Viagra by Lisa

In the quaint ​town⁤ of Kent, England,⁤ the unexpected⁢ happened in 1996. A Pfizer laboratory, while working on treatments for hypertension, stumbled upon the miracle‌ drug, Viagra.​ This⁣ small blue pill, embodying the Olympic motto “Citius, Altius, Fortius” (“Faster, Higher, Stronger”) for your manhood, took the world⁤ by storm. It has since become a renowned solution for a timeless issue.​ Two decades later, it continues‍ to thrive. Here’s a comprehensive guide to understanding the magic behind Viagra.

## Understanding Viagra

Viagra, also ‍known⁤ as Sildenafil, is primarily used ⁤to treat erectile dysfunction (ED) in men. ED is a condition where a man is unable to achieve an erection ‍sufficient ‌for sexual intercourse.

## The Science Behind an‌ Erection

An erection is triggered by sexual stimuli, which could ⁣be physical contact or psychological, ‍such as visual stimuli or​ erotic⁤ thoughts. This ⁣triggers your nervous system to ⁤release nitric oxide, a potent blood-vessel dilator. This causes the arteries and the corpora cavernosa, the main body of​ your ‌penis, to fill with⁢ blood. ⁤To maintain the erection, the ischiocavernosus and⁤ bulbospongiosus muscles of⁢ your ⁣penis constrict, effectively preventing the⁣ veins of your penis from draining the‍ blood. In⁢ cases of ED, ⁢this process is impaired.

## The Role of Viagra

Viagra works by inhibiting the breakdown of nitric oxide, allowing the blood vessels ‍to ⁣dilate more effectively. This was discovered when scientists in Kent found that nitric⁢ oxide is regulated by enzymes in the cyclic guanylate monophosphate⁤ pathway, which are broken down by phosphodiesterases (PDEs). Viagra is a PDE inhibitor ‌and prevents these enzymes from breaking down in the penis,⁤ allowing nitric oxide to work effectively.

## Who Should Use Viagra?

Viagra is primarily prescribed for men with ED. However, it has also been used ⁣recreationally ⁤as a‍ pseudo-endurance booster⁢ by men⁢ who ​do not have erection problems.

## Duration of Viagra’s Effect

Viagra typically starts⁣ working 30 minutes after ingestion, provided there is sexual stimulation. Its effects usually last for two⁤ to three hours. This doesn’t mean you’ll have a constant​ erection, but rather that you’ll be able to achieve erections more easily during this period, each lasting around 30 minutes.

## Side ⁣Effects of Viagra

Viagra’s dilating properties affect other blood vessels in your body, not just those in your penis. Common side effects include headaches,⁤ blurred vision, and skin flushing. If you have⁤ heart disease, ⁢you should consult your doctor before‌ using Viagra, as it⁣ may interact with other medications ⁣you’re ⁢taking.

## Where to Get Viagra

Viagra can be obtained from⁣ your GP or⁣ local chemist. Both will ‍need to assess your‍ clinical need. Due to a recent change in law, chemists can now provide Viagra without a prescription from a doctor. While it can be purchased online, it’s advisable to get ⁤it in person due to‍ the⁣ prevalence of counterfeit⁤ drugs.

## Alternatives to Viagra

Viagra is not the only ​drug of its kind. Other PDE inhibitors, such as tadalafil (Cialis), vardenafil (Levitra), and avanafil (Spedra), ‌work similarly to Viagra. If Viagra doesn’t work for you, ‌one of these alternatives ‌might.

Dr Nick Knight is a GP. Follow him on Instagram, ‌@Dr.NickKnight.

For more information, read our guides on Viagra, condoms, and understanding if you’re a sex addict.

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Wearing a Nearly Too Sexy Versace Velvet Shirt for 24 Hours by Lisa

Do you possess a velvet shirt in your wardrobe?

Just to clarify, I don’t.

Truly.

Let me be clear: ‍I don’t own a ⁣velvet shirt, nor am I the‌ type of ⁤man who would. ‍Now that we’ve established that, let’s delve into the question: what kind of man does own a velvet ⁤shirt?

It’s quite evident,‌ isn’t it? The ⁤man who dons a velvet shirt lives a life of opulence, reminiscent of Liberace, spending his Tuesday evenings in a ​bubbling hot tub, surrounded‍ by attractive companions, with a⁢ fridge stocked with diamonds, Champagne, and the⁤ finest Beluga caviar… all while⁤ sporting a⁤ poorly fitted wig. This man‍ is well​ aware of societal norms, yet he chooses to subtly defy​ them.

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A velvet shirt is a symbol of audacity that intimidates the aloof and the ‍cynical. Its flamboyant aura, its⁤ unabashed allure, and its enticing shimmer are too ‍much for ⁤the overly cool to handle. The man who wears a velvet shirt exudes a masculinity as intense as the steamy ​scenes from Love Island. He embodies the raw charisma of Keith Richards, slightly inebriated ⁤but always in command.

The Velvet Shirt Man (VSM) is as iconic as⁤ Burt Reynolds’ moustache, as he lounges bare on a Persian rug,⁤ grinning mischievously like Dan Bilzarian’s pet cat Smushball. VSM relishes the ‍feel⁢ of​ black satin sheets against ‍his bronzed skin ‍and wakes up to the exotic sound of peacocks courting in his sprawling gardens. VSM is a seasoned traveller, yet he feels at home wherever he lays his head or, indeed,⁤ removes his shirt.

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How to Determine if It’s Time to Become Exclusive with Your Partner by Lisa

Embracing the digital age has revolutionized dating, offering a plethora⁢ of options. However, there comes a time when we need to consider exclusivity. Here ⁢are some⁤ signs that you might be ready to take your relationship to the next level:

1. You refer to ⁤them as your partner

If ⁢you find yourself referring to them as your boyfriend or ⁢girlfriend, it’s a clear sign that you’re ready for a monogamous relationship.

2. ⁢You’ve lost interest in flirting with others

If you’re no longer interested‌ in flirting with others and find yourself turning away potential admirers, it’s a ⁣sign that you’re content with your current relationship.

3. You’re swiping left more often

If you’re swiping left more often than not, it’s a sign that‌ you’re not interested in starting something new and are content with your current relationship.

4. You talk about them to your friends

If your friends have noticed that you talk about your partner a lot, it’s a clear sign that they’re on your mind and you’re ready to make it official.

5. You’re taking better care of‍ yourself

If you find‍ yourself making healthier‌ choices and taking better care of⁤ yourself, it’s a sign that you want to be the best version of ‌yourself⁤ for your partner.

6. You’re excited to see them

If you’re genuinely excited to see your partner and not just for the ‌physical intimacy, it’s ⁤a sign that you’re emotionally invested in the relationship.

7. They’re a part of your weekend plans

If you find yourself⁤ making plans with your partner for the weekend, it’s a sign that ​you enjoy their company and want to spend more time with them.

8. You use ‘we’ when talking about future plans

If you find yourself using ‘we’ when discussing future plans, it’s ‌a sign that you see your partner as a part of your future.

9. You’ve shared a couple’s selfie on social media

If you’ve shared a couple’s selfie on social media and tagged them, it’s ⁢a sign that you’re ready to announce your relationship to the world.

10. There’s more than ‌one toothbrush in your bathroom

If there’s more than one toothbrush in your bathroom, it’s a ⁣sign that your relationship⁢ has progressed beyond casual dating.

11. You’re worried about disappointing them

If you ⁢find yourself going out‌ of your way to avoid ‍disappointing your partner, it’s ⁤a sign that you‍ care about their feelings and are invested in the relationship.

12. Your conversations are getting deeper

If your conversations have progressed from casual topics to more personal ones,⁣ it’s a sign that you’re comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings‌ with your partner.

13. You’re comfortable discussing⁣ the future of your relationship

If you’re comfortable ⁤discussing the future of your relationship and where it’s headed, it’s a sign that you’re ready for a serious commitment.

14. You think about them randomly

If you find yourself thinking about your partner randomly throughout the ‌day, it’s ⁤a sign that they’re always on your mind.

15. You feel that they feel the same way

If you⁢ feel that your partner feels the same way about you, it’s a sign that you’re ⁢both ready‍ for a committed relationship.

16. You’ve been dating for a while

If ‍you’ve been dating for a while and⁣ are⁣ still interested in each ⁢other, it’s‍ a sign that you’re ready for ​a committed relationship.

17. You’ve had‌ your first argument and resolved it

If you’ve ⁣had your first argument ⁢and managed to resolve it, it’s a sign that you’re able to communicate effectively and work through issues together.

18. You’re past the ⁢’playing⁤ it cool’ phase

If you’re past the ‘playing​ it ⁣cool’ phase and are comfortable​ showing your feelings, it’s a sign that you’re ready for a serious relationship.

19. You’ve stopped dating⁢ other people

If you’ve stopped dating other people and are focusing on your current relationship, it’s a sign that you’re ready for exclusivity.

20. You got‌ engaged on Christmas Day

If you got engaged on Christmas Day, it’s definitely time ⁢to commit to your partner and ⁢leave your single days behind.

Further​ Reading:

How to present your best self on Bumble

The do’s and don’ts of dating in the modern⁣ age

How to send nudes responsibly in the digital age

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