An Adult Film Star’s Guide to Mastering Oral Intimacy by Lisa
Whether you’re giving or receiving, there’s a lot more to oral sex than meets the eye. It’s not just about bobbing your head or lying back passively. Oral sex is a two-way street that requires thoughtful positioning, clear communication, and most importantly, practice. To help you master the art of oral pleasure, we’ve sought advice from three adult content creators and porn stars: London Twink Milker, Josh Collins, and Gwen Adora. They’ve shared their top tips for achieving oral sex excellence.
Here’s your comprehensive guide to giving and receiving the ultimate oral pleasure, as advised by the experts themselves.
Preparation is Key
Giving
Before diving in, it’s important to set the mood. Collins suggests starting with some passionate kissing. If things are heating up, you can gradually move your hands towards their crotch, and then slowly kiss down their body to initiate the act.
Adora also recommends starting with your hands. A good handjob can be a fun way to tease your partner before you start using your mouth. She suggests kissing everywhere but the penis to build anticipation, which can make your partner crave for more.
Receiving
If you’re on the receiving end, grooming is crucial. While surprise oral sex can happen, it’s always best to be prepared. Nobody wants to be interrupted by having to remove stray hairs. Collins prefers to keep things trimmed or shaved, but ultimately, it’s up to the individual’s preference.
LTM emphasizes the importance of hygiene: “Just be freshly showered – unless they explicitly ask you not to be.” If you’re short on time and can’t shower, a quick wash with soap and water should suffice. Treat every part of your skin as if you’ll have to taste it yourself. Your underwear should be clean and fit well. And perhaps, save the novelty character underwear for another occasion.
Before you start, ensure that both parties are eager and consenting. As LTM puts it, “The best head is from someone who’s very eager to give. If you have to ask, it’s probably better to do something else.” Oral sex should be a gift, not a chore.
Choose the Right Position
Giving
“Position is very important, especially if you’re aiming to give a slow edging blow job over maybe half an hour or so,” says LTM. ”It’s important that the giver is comfortable. I prefer sitting in a low chair between his legs with him sitting in a higher seat opposite me. This allows me to focus on his muscles tensing and throbbing, rather than my neck or back aching. It’s also very important for avoiding teeth; if your teeth are scraping him, it’s almost certainly because you’re in the wrong position.”