Enjoyable First Date Ideas by Lisa
Over the years, our quest for convenience has significantly impacted the dating scene. The rise of dating apps has certainly eased our anxieties, but it has also increased the pressure for the first date to be flawless – unless, of course, you’re a character in a Hollywood movie with only 15 minutes left to wrap up the story.
So, what’s the ideal setting for a first date, and what activities should you plan?
Top Five First Date Ideas
1) Coffee Date
If you’re uncertain about your date or vice versa, a casual coffee date could be the perfect solution. It’s like a trial run for a date. Coffee shops, known for their tranquillity, offer minimal distractions, allowing you to focus on your date and gauge if you’d like to spend more time with them. However, it’s best to avoid overly trendy coffee shops with constant background noise and overly enthusiastic baristas. If the date goes well and you’re ready for more than just a cup of coffee, you can always head to a…
2) Pub
A pub is a classic choice for a date. However, the success of this choice depends on the quality of the pub you choose. Pubs are popular because they serve alcohol, which can help ease nerves or fill awkward silences. Even if you end up in a less-than-ideal pub, you can bond over critiquing it – a shared dislike can be a great ice breaker. Be aware, though, that your date may judge you based on your pub choice. If they don’t seem to be enjoying it, you can always say a friend recommended it or you found it online. If they love it, claim it as one of your favourites – even if it’s your first visit. If you’re a regular, be careful not to appear too familiar with the staff, as your date may think you have a drinking problem.
3) Bowling
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