The Transformation of Male Perspectives on Sex through Orgasmic Meditation by Lisa
The current climate of gender relations is tense, with the #MeToo movement and numerous allegations of women-delay-engaging-in-sexual-activity/” title=”Reasons Women Delay Engaging in Sexual Activity”>sexual assault and harassment causing a surge of pain and anger. Many men are grappling with feelings of shame and guilt as the harmful effects of toxic masculinity are exposed. It’s becoming increasingly clear that patriarchal societies are detrimental not only to women but also to men. This could be why a somewhat unconventional and female-centric practice is gaining traction in the UK.
So, what exactly is orgasmic meditation?
Orgasmic meditation, often abbreviated as OM, is not a sexual act, despite involving a body part typically associated with sex. The practice involves one person stroking another’s clitoris for fifteen minutes, using gloves and lubricant. The experience is akin to yoga, as it encourages you to connect with your body and feel every sensation. It also resembles meditation, as it involves observing thoughts as they arise and letting them go without judgement.
But is orgasmic meditation suitable for men?
Men can participate in OM as “strokers”, but they are not the ones being stroked. The practice does not involve penetration, romance, kissing, eye gazing, or penis play. The focus is solely on the female genitals. Women reportedly reap numerous benefits from OM, including reduced stress levels and more intense orgasms. But what’s in it for men?
Chris Jescheck, a 33-year-old from Munich who has been practicing OM for years, initially questioned the same thing. He admitted, “At first, I thought I should quit because I was giving something to her without receiving anything in return. However, after a few sessions, something changed. I felt energised and more alert after OM. I realised that the practice isn’t about ‘getting something in return’.”
In addition to feeling more energised, “strokers” claim that OM helps uncover subconscious beliefs about sex, such as the notion that “If I do something for them, they should do something for me”. This practice, which doesn’t aim for climax, also helps to dismantle sexual conditioning.
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