Celebrating Valentine’s Day Elegantly Without Breaking the Bank by Lisa
Valentine’s Day, a celebration of love and affection, often brings with it a unique set of worries. As the world around us gets painted in hues of pink and red, the commercial aspect of this day of love can sometimes feel overwhelming. The question then arises – should you participate in the Valentine’s Day frenzy or choose to ignore it?
Even those who usually shy away from romantic gestures often find themselves succumbing to the Valentine’s Day charm. This puts added pressure on admirers, suitors, and partners to strike the perfect balance. Much like the pressure to spoil our children with gifts during Christmas, we often feel compelled to go overboard in expressing our love on Valentine’s Day. After all, competition is in our nature, isn’t it?
Take a look around any office on the 14th of February. Reception desks are flooded with bouquets, each grander than the last. Boxes of chocolates the size of a small car, enormous helium balloons, musical Valentine cards, and even elaborate proposals with laser shows in the parking lot. It’s all a bit too much. We need to rethink the notion that romance can be quantified.
Should we exchange cards?
With the mounting pressure of the day, it’s no surprise that we’re becoming apprehensive. However, it seems we might be worrying over nothing. According to a survey by dating website Plenty Of Fish, two-thirds of single people would be content with a romantic text instead of a Valentine’s Day card. But don’t discard your love notes just yet. There’s a certain discomfort around the commercialization of love. Yet, no one will ever turn down a card. Even the newest of relationships can benefit from a Valentine’s card. It’s the least you can do, and it should reflect both you and your feelings.
You know your partner best, so use your judgment when selecting a card. If you’re considering something flashy or risqué, make sure they’ll appreciate the humor. A Valentine’s card that misses the mark can spell disaster. My advice: keep it simple and classy. If you’re not finding the right card, opt for a beautiful sheet of paper or a notelet, and a plain cream envelope. Write down your feelings, your thoughts. There’s no need for fancy handwriting, just honesty. And remember, even if they say, “Let’s not do cards this year,” get one anyway. “I saw it and thought it was perfect for you – I couldn’t resist.”
Should we dine out?
For reasons unknown, food plays a significant role in Valentine’s Day celebrations. However, indulging in a heavy meal before intimacy isn’t the best idea. It’s better to enjoy each other’s company before heading out for a meal. But think twice before you decide to dine out. Restaurants on Valentine’s Day are often crowded and noisy, with patrons rushing through their meals to make way for the next couple. It’s akin to traveling during rush hour with a large suitcase, a toddler, and a playful terrier – best avoided if possible. A home-cooked meal might seem like an easy way out, but it can be made special. Order from your favorite restaurant, decorate your space, or even hire a chef and service for the evening.