Experiencing a Session with a Masturbation Coach by Lisa
While the term “masturbation coach” may seem like a fabricated job title, it is indeed a legitimate profession that aids individuals, particularly those grappling with sexual dysfunction, in becoming more at ease with their bodies. You may believe you’ve mastered the art of self-pleasure, but even experts in their fields have coaches.
Masturbation coaching is a powerful tool used by sex therapists and coaches to assist with issues such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and inability to orgasm. It can also be beneficial for those who simply want to enhance their sexual abilities or increase their pleasure. As stated by Amy Weissfeld, a Portland-based somatic sex educator and coach, “This is about acknowledging that there’s more pleasure to be experienced and that you’re deserving of it.”
Unlike a sex therapist, who is a licensed professional specializing in sex, there are no specific, universal prerequisites to becoming a sex or masturbation coach. This is partly why the profession has historically lacked some credibility. However, numerous organizations offer training and licensure, including the Somatica Institute and the American Association of Sexual Educators, Counselors, Therapists.
The need for re-education in masturbation stems from society’s complicated relationship with self-pleasure. Many sex educators have noted the shame associated with early masturbation experiences, such as the fear of being discovered or the need to remain silent. Weissfeld aims to help individuals reclaim the innocent joy and exploration of their bodies, leading to healthier, more complete individuals and better lovers.
Men, in particular, can benefit from masturbation coaching as they often fall into a specific pattern from adolescence. According to Dr. Shannon Chavez, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, men often have a “death grip” and may not explore other parts of their body during self-stimulation. She encourages them to explore their bodies more fully and relax.
Chavez explains the difference between coaching and therapy. Therapy delves deeper into thought and relationship patterns and past issues, while coaching focuses on the present. The duration of coaching depends on individual goals, but Weissfeld suggests planning for four to ten sessions. However, if the problem is deeply rooted in family dynamics, attachment styles, and past trauma, a more comprehensive treatment plan may be recommended.
These sessions can be conducted in person or via video chat, with licensed therapists using secure video chats that comply with HIPAA confidentiality agreements. The sessions typically involve discussing intentions, goals, and areas of focus. Often, individuals seek help for sexual dysfunction or a desire for improvement, which masturbation coaching can assist with.
