A Guide to the Art of Sexting from a Cam Girl’s Perspective by Lisa
Modern technology has provided us with countless innovative ways to explore our sexuality - from remote-controlled sex toys and virtual reality porn to Zoom sex parties. However, one of the most reliable and effective methods remains the simple text message. Sexting, the 21st-century equivalent of the passionate love letter, is both exciting and easily accessible, requiring no expensive gadgets or VR headsets.
Despite its appeal, sexting can be intimidating. How do you start without seeming inappropriate? How can you let go of self-consciousness? What are you supposed to say? For beginners, sexting can seem like navigating a minefield. However, for those in long-distance relationships, it can be a game-changer.
To assist you in your sexting journey, we’ve compiled a list of essential tips and tricks you need to know before sending that first message. Who better to guide you than professionals in the field? Here, Canadian adult content creator Gwen Adora and OnlyFans creator CruelAlice share their expert advice on initiating sexting, capturing the perfect nude, and what to avoid to keep the conversation spicy.
Transitioning from casual conversation to sexting can seem daunting. You don’t want to abruptly change the topic, but you also don’t want to be so subtle that the other person misses the hint. According to Adora, the best sexting arises from normal conversations that naturally build tension. She suggests subtly shifting into sexting by discussing each other’s kinks and fantasies. This not only helps you understand each other’s interests but also creates an erotic conversation.
For those who prefer a more straightforward approach, Adora suggests setting the scene by describing a scenario that can inspire your sexting partner. Compliments can also stimulate sexting. For instance, ‘I need to feel your hardness against my thigh’. If you’ve been with your sexting partner in person, reminiscing about shared memories can be a great way to start sexting.
As Adora puts it, “sexting is a delicate dance, so you’ll have to work together to discover what you enjoy”.
Once you’ve successfully initiated sexting, the next step is to keep the momentum going. To do this, you need to be creative and descriptive. Adora advises, “When describing actions, try to draw out the small, sexy details. You don’t need to pull out a thesaurus, but play around with how you can communicate your desires in an expressive way.” For example, there’s a difference between ‘I put my dick inside your pussy’ and ‘I slowly rub my cock across your vulva before sliding it inside of you’ – the latter evokes feeling, and that feeling is turned on.